An Undervalued Women Issue

I have this huge issue of women's rights and their roles in this society .. For example .. If we think of our moms cook the best, how come all the famous chefs are guys ?  It is because women often give up being promoted or can’t be devoted to career because they make sacrifice for their family ..

So if a guy is into food network, it can turn into a career, but if a woman is into it .. in most case scenario .. It naturally becomes part of the chores that she does everyday and is taken for granted, and the worst part is : No pay .

While wives feeling so thankful towards their husbands for earning money .. They forgot

and are not viewed as a worker who works inside the family and receives no salary .

I have seen many women in Taiwan were asked to stay home serving husbands，kids

and the elderly ( often the parents in law ) .They have no money but keep on serving and staying loyal to their marital family no matter what .

No matter what means : if husbands have affairs , if they don't like the in laws , if they are demanded to have babies, if they are abused, or if they wish to live in a separate space from the marital family . Women are cheap . Getting married technically means you are sold .

Because you have tons of unpaid duties that keep you from getting a paid job. Without money in your own pocket, you are just gonna end up staying with the same unpaid duties even when you are not happy, which again, leaves you no time to pursue a paid job. It’s like a vicious cycle.

Unless…your other half is hypnotized to be loyal to you and nurture you in everyway he can, so you are insured with that type of guarantee. Unfortunately, it can not be true in reality.

Maybe that's why I tend to be attracted by western guys who are more likely to hold values emphasizing on individuals. But no matter what , I have learned that no relationship is ought to last for a life time , even it is bonded with a contract . It's a total foolish belief .

But a relationship "Can" last a life time in its natural , humane course. That's why I believe in living at the moment, and moment"s" could form a life time . 9/10/2015 ﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽，﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽ e happy to ㄍ﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽﷽